12-29-2017, 11:06 AM
Hey IOP folks!
I hope the festive period has been, and I mean this, a wholly pleasant time for each and every one of you. If I could send a Christmas hug to each and every one of you I'd do it in a second. Unfortunately at this time of year, loneliness strikes (ironically enough, millions and millions of people across this crazy blue and green ball we live are lonely...yet there are so many of us...it does make you wonder if technology and so-called social media has turned many folk unintentionally socially isolated. Not even just amongst the elderly, but youngsters too.
If anyone here's been having a bit of a rough or a lonely time and trying to make sense of what can be a stressful time of year...give me a shout in this thread and I'll happily chat with you. I've been a bit inactive for reasons I'll dive into in the next paragraph down but once I hit the big 50 post, I'll be able to celebrate by knowing that all of you can feel welcome 24/7 to chat to me about absolutely bloomin' anything at all. It's true what they sing in The Blues Brothers (the first film, not the ghastly sequel, I think everyone who's seen both will agree with me there!) that 'Everybody Needs Somebody'. As strong as we all are, as strong as we can be, we are always stronger unified somehow. Going without social contact for too long isn't natural, and we must remind ourselves to even wave to our neighbours or post to online anonymous friends in order to maintain an adequate feeling of manageable mental health. Because, when you're down, as evil as the world can look sometimes (which makes the inhabitants of the world appear somewhat evil too) - sometimes all it takes is a small chat and a smile not just to change your day for the better, but to changes someone else's who may well need it more than you think. I'm talking about the people with smiles in their faces who always seem to be there for everyone else...but is anyone ever there for them? Is anyone ever there for them in the same way? Does anyone else smile at them in the same way? It's easy to think that depression is the sad, hunched over fella begrudgingly getting from A to B, but truth to be told it could be anyone.
I'm a bit sleep deprived so I'm not convinced I've articulated myself too fantastically but my point is, try not to be lonely, try to ensure others aren't lonely and finally be as kind and as full of empathy as your mind allows towards other human beings. Other human beings, just like you and me, who were taught "treat others how you want to be treated" when we were much younger" but sometimes don't always remember to. Going out of your way to smile and make idle chit chat with an elderly person, any person at all today could radically improve their day. Something that takes minimal effort and time has the power to make someone, for at least a while, happy. I think we're all capable of that, and though I've only been here a short while I know there's some incredibly kindhearted folk here who can do that.
I just wanted to preface this post with a message of positivity(well, realistic positivity, shall we call it? Haha) because I had some rather bad news two weeks ago now. Border Force, bless their souls, decided to leave me a Christmas Card this year, except instead of a merry piece of cardboard it was actually what is a Love Letter. I was gutted but it'd been in Customs so long I kind of expected it.
Been ordering mags and similar online products since 2013, I always thought it was always the 0.1% (if even that pitiful amount!) of people who received LLs in the post. Back on a different forum I posted on around 2013-2015, seizures and letters from Border Force were almost unheard of. I remember only one post during those whole two years of any package getting seized, and it was travelling to Australia which is notorious for high seizure rates and has been for a while, to be fair. Poor Aussies, eh?
Thankfully my vendor - who is not only a spectacular vendor but also a truly wonderful and exceptionally kind soul - agreed to reship everything, to which I have been incredibly grateful for due to the fact it is not a small or cheap order by any means. However...the new package has been in customs for slightly over a week now and I have an utterly terrible feeling of dread gripping me on this one. I know people may rush to inform me that customs can sometimes be rather slow throughout the year, let alone the festive period however I have also managed to get a (less crucial order) through customs after 2 days despite also being on the opposite, albeit different side of the world.
I truly am fretting that if this is seized too I'll face consequences. I mentioned earlier I hadn't been on Iop over the last week or so earlier in this post, and I must admit my own mental health has taken a dip and as such I've been reluctant to come to the forums simply because it's currently a reminder that I have EVERYTHING in a parcel that could make me no longer ill...that may be seized yet again. The LL I received from Border Force stated if they were to find a new suspicious package the punishment would be either an unlimited fine or up to seven years in prison.
Not top sure why I'm complaining about this, I suppose I just need to rant my frustrations out since this isn't really the standard topic one would have with family, friends or coworkers. I won't lie...i just feel awful. I hate having to say that because I despise feeling or showing weakness but if a package - which cost me a great deal of money and could land me in severe legal troubles _ doesn't show up at my door, I really don't know what to do.
Just try to concentrate on the more positive aspect of this post because I know there's so many good people suffering here infinitely more than I am so I shouldn't be complaining, and had the package just been seized and thrown away in doubt I would be moaning and groaning as I am. Unfortunately, there's something very scary and official looking about the Border Force papers and I would really like my mental health to have a small victory for once and be reunited with my mags.
If anyone had any news about post being in customs (I'm based in Europe) for a week and still arriving through your letterbox okay, I would really appreciate it right now, perhaps as a small comfort.
Much love and wishes of happiness for you all in these strange, strange times indeed.
I hope the festive period has been, and I mean this, a wholly pleasant time for each and every one of you. If I could send a Christmas hug to each and every one of you I'd do it in a second. Unfortunately at this time of year, loneliness strikes (ironically enough, millions and millions of people across this crazy blue and green ball we live are lonely...yet there are so many of us...it does make you wonder if technology and so-called social media has turned many folk unintentionally socially isolated. Not even just amongst the elderly, but youngsters too.
If anyone here's been having a bit of a rough or a lonely time and trying to make sense of what can be a stressful time of year...give me a shout in this thread and I'll happily chat with you. I've been a bit inactive for reasons I'll dive into in the next paragraph down but once I hit the big 50 post, I'll be able to celebrate by knowing that all of you can feel welcome 24/7 to chat to me about absolutely bloomin' anything at all. It's true what they sing in The Blues Brothers (the first film, not the ghastly sequel, I think everyone who's seen both will agree with me there!) that 'Everybody Needs Somebody'. As strong as we all are, as strong as we can be, we are always stronger unified somehow. Going without social contact for too long isn't natural, and we must remind ourselves to even wave to our neighbours or post to online anonymous friends in order to maintain an adequate feeling of manageable mental health. Because, when you're down, as evil as the world can look sometimes (which makes the inhabitants of the world appear somewhat evil too) - sometimes all it takes is a small chat and a smile not just to change your day for the better, but to changes someone else's who may well need it more than you think. I'm talking about the people with smiles in their faces who always seem to be there for everyone else...but is anyone ever there for them? Is anyone ever there for them in the same way? Does anyone else smile at them in the same way? It's easy to think that depression is the sad, hunched over fella begrudgingly getting from A to B, but truth to be told it could be anyone.
I'm a bit sleep deprived so I'm not convinced I've articulated myself too fantastically but my point is, try not to be lonely, try to ensure others aren't lonely and finally be as kind and as full of empathy as your mind allows towards other human beings. Other human beings, just like you and me, who were taught "treat others how you want to be treated" when we were much younger" but sometimes don't always remember to. Going out of your way to smile and make idle chit chat with an elderly person, any person at all today could radically improve their day. Something that takes minimal effort and time has the power to make someone, for at least a while, happy. I think we're all capable of that, and though I've only been here a short while I know there's some incredibly kindhearted folk here who can do that.
I just wanted to preface this post with a message of positivity(well, realistic positivity, shall we call it? Haha) because I had some rather bad news two weeks ago now. Border Force, bless their souls, decided to leave me a Christmas Card this year, except instead of a merry piece of cardboard it was actually what is a Love Letter. I was gutted but it'd been in Customs so long I kind of expected it.
Been ordering mags and similar online products since 2013, I always thought it was always the 0.1% (if even that pitiful amount!) of people who received LLs in the post. Back on a different forum I posted on around 2013-2015, seizures and letters from Border Force were almost unheard of. I remember only one post during those whole two years of any package getting seized, and it was travelling to Australia which is notorious for high seizure rates and has been for a while, to be fair. Poor Aussies, eh?
Thankfully my vendor - who is not only a spectacular vendor but also a truly wonderful and exceptionally kind soul - agreed to reship everything, to which I have been incredibly grateful for due to the fact it is not a small or cheap order by any means. However...the new package has been in customs for slightly over a week now and I have an utterly terrible feeling of dread gripping me on this one. I know people may rush to inform me that customs can sometimes be rather slow throughout the year, let alone the festive period however I have also managed to get a (less crucial order) through customs after 2 days despite also being on the opposite, albeit different side of the world.
I truly am fretting that if this is seized too I'll face consequences. I mentioned earlier I hadn't been on Iop over the last week or so earlier in this post, and I must admit my own mental health has taken a dip and as such I've been reluctant to come to the forums simply because it's currently a reminder that I have EVERYTHING in a parcel that could make me no longer ill...that may be seized yet again. The LL I received from Border Force stated if they were to find a new suspicious package the punishment would be either an unlimited fine or up to seven years in prison.
Not top sure why I'm complaining about this, I suppose I just need to rant my frustrations out since this isn't really the standard topic one would have with family, friends or coworkers. I won't lie...i just feel awful. I hate having to say that because I despise feeling or showing weakness but if a package - which cost me a great deal of money and could land me in severe legal troubles _ doesn't show up at my door, I really don't know what to do.
Just try to concentrate on the more positive aspect of this post because I know there's so many good people suffering here infinitely more than I am so I shouldn't be complaining, and had the package just been seized and thrown away in doubt I would be moaning and groaning as I am. Unfortunately, there's something very scary and official looking about the Border Force papers and I would really like my mental health to have a small victory for once and be reunited with my mags.
If anyone had any news about post being in customs (I'm based in Europe) for a week and still arriving through your letterbox okay, I would really appreciate it right now, perhaps as a small comfort.
Much love and wishes of happiness for you all in these strange, strange times indeed.