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(05-22-2016, 04:50 PM)Popster Wrote: Regret, sorrow, guilt and remorse are all about the past......which no longer exists and detracts from being in the moment.

Fear, worry and anxiety are about the future........and also detracts from being in the moment.

Let go of both to find true happiness.

Changing the past is not possible.....it is the compost for your future. Garbage becomes roses, fruit and flowers....this is your right.....but only if you accept it........be glad for your lessons learned....they bring a brighter future if you allow it to be.

your thoughts and "plight" are common to us all.....it is part of our dilemma on this earth to suffer.......none of us escapes this.

Let go of the past by learning from it, smile at it, embrace it and move on.......no need to hang your hat there.

Happiness is within reach....but you have to reach in front of you...not behind you.....just my 2¢

This is the best solution... Everyone of us can use this advise... Thanks Popster

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A True Friend 
Freely Advises Justly 
Assists Readily, 
Adventures Boldly, 
Takes all Patiently,
Defends Courageously
And
Continues a Friend Unchangeably.


William Penn

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#22
Chickenzilla - don't be sad!!!
One of my favorite sayings:

Heart Memories my friend!!!!!!


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#23
(05-22-2016, 04:50 PM)Popster Wrote: Regret, sorrow, guilt and remorse are all about the past......which no longer exists and detracts from being in the moment.

Fear, worry and anxiety are about the future........and also detracts from being in the moment.

Let go of both to find true happiness.

Changing the past is not possible.....it is the compost for your future.  Garbage becomes roses, fruit and flowers....this is your right.....but only if you accept it........be glad for your lessons learned....they bring a brighter future if you allow it to be.

your thoughts and "plight" are common to us all.....it is part of our dilemma on this earth to suffer.......none of us escapes this.

Let go of the past by learning from it, smile at it, embrace it and move on.......no need to hang your hat there.

Happiness is within reach....but you have to reach in front of you...not behind you.....just my 2¢

If that's just your 2 cents Popster, I can only imagine what you could do with a dollar...

Truly an awesome post Popster....love your work mate.
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#24
A very wise man once Said " What does NOT kill you makes you stronger " i allways have that in mind
When things are rough.
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#25
Last night I held my head in my hands for 30 min about and held back tears.. I can't bring myself to cry but I could if I let the flood gates open.  I wish I could post a picture of myself here so you guys could see me.. 

Can I not cry because there's a man in men? Only girls have the power to make me cry on the spot..


Anyone else? Stories? Or just whatever.. It was odd because I hasn't done that in years.

(05-23-2016, 05:23 AM)Breacher Wrote:
(05-22-2016, 04:50 PM)Popster Wrote: Regret, sorrow, guilt and remorse are all about the past......which no longer exists and detracts from being in the moment.

Fear, worry and anxiety are about the future........and also detracts from being in the moment.

Let go of both to find true happiness.

Changing the past is not possible.....it is the compost for your future.  Garbage becomes roses, fruit and flowers....this is your right.....but only if you accept it........be glad for your lessons learned....they bring a brighter future if you allow it to be.

your thoughts and "plight" are common to us all.....it is part of our dilemma on this earth to suffer.......none of us escapes this.

Let go of the past by learning from it, smile at it, embrace it and move on.......no need to hang your hat there.

Happiness is within reach....but you have to reach in front of you...not behind you.....just my 2¢

If that's just your 2 cents Popster, I can only imagine what you could do with a dollar...

Truly an awesome post Popster....love your work mate.

I can't. I'm weak.I need a dog or something to be my friend and I grow stronger.. I'm so fucking alone it's .. I just wish I ...ugh..I know it's common but I've had it worse, and others have had it much worse but still.. Maybe I really should try to get a dog.
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(05-31-2016, 05:22 PM)Chickenzilla Wrote: Last night I held my head in my hands for 30 min about and held back tears.. I can't bring myself to cry but I could if I let the flood gates open.  I wish I could post a picture of myself here so you guys could see me.. 

Can I not cry because there's a man in men? Only girls have the power to make me cry on the spot..


Anyone else? Stories? Or just whatever.. It was odd because I hasn't done that in years.
I'm sorry Chickenzilla, that sounds horrible. At times I have felt the same way - lonely, needing to cry, but feeling blocked and unable to release it.
I can cry, but generally about trivial things. To my eternal shame I wept like a baby when I took my niece to see High School Musical 3 - I'm not sure if I'm more ashamed of seeing the film, or crying! ;-) I cried when David Bowie died. But I didnt cry when a friend died a few months ago. Weird isn't it?
I think as men we are socialised into not showing certain emotions. You aren't alone in this.
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